Friends! I’ve made it! This is the 30th post in 30 days!
Thank you all for following along and reading.
Don’t worry, I will keep writing, but maybe not quite so often. I would like to give myself weekends off at least.
Have you been reading regularly, but not making yourself known?
I invite you to reach out. Be vulnerable.
The thing I learned from my vulnerable post yesterday is: you get results when you are willing to be vulnerable.
I hope you can see how this applies to sex and intimacy.
Your sexual relationship requires vulnerability from you.
When you open yourself up, you allow people to see the real you.
Intimacy = Into me see
Then they move closer.
That’s when you are able to surrender yourself to connection and pleasure.
It’s human nature to want to be connected.
We are social beings.
Even the least social among us.
There is a divinity within us that yearns for belonging, worth and love.
You are valuable beyond measure.
You are lovable and loved.
Because if nobody else has said it today, I love you.
I cracked myself open yesterday and the 28 days before that, which allowed me to love myself more fully and that helps me love you more fully.
This post is so late (10:30 pm where I am) because I loved myself today.
I went slow.
I did what felt loving to me all day.
I scheduled a 9 pm massage.
It was lovely.
And you know what?
I totally deserved it.
I was worth it.
And so are you.
You are worth a close, loving marriage.
You are worth sexual pleasure.
It doesn’t make you dirty or bad or impure.
Loving your sex life– really doing the work to be vulnerable and getting closer to your spouse– will strengthen the mindset muscles you need to love yourself, love your life, and love other people.
It will change everything for you.
It doesn’t matter if you hire a coach because you want to lose weight, have anxiety or want a better sex life.
It all comes down to loving yourself and seeing that you have value.
And love feels so good.
When you love yourself, you are the one that gets to feel love.
And when you feel loved, you radiate it to the world.
It ripples out, creating goodness everywhere.
It becomes a true, genuine joy that connects you to everyone in the world.
I know this sounds a little woo-woo.
But it’s everything.
If you could do what it takes to love yourself on your own, you would have done it already.
I invite you to schedule a chat with me.
Maybe we will click and maybe we won’t.
But you will never find out if you don’t try.
Take 1 hour to do something for yourself. I promise it will be worth it.
I will show you where your blind spots or stumbling blocks are.
I will explain how to address them.
Be vulnerable with me.
Whatever excuse your brain in giving you right now to not click that link to schedule a call, that is the reason why you really need to do it.
If you think you are too busy or don’t have enough time, I will help you make time in your life and create a life that is peaceful and purposeful.
If you think you are too shy or it would be embarrassing, feeling shy and embarrassed it the currency to getting what you want in life.
If you think I am going to pressure you to buy something, you are wrong. My job is just to be the champion for your dream. I truly just want to serve.
If you think your spouse wouldn’t approve, then you are giving all your power to him and I that is why you feel powerless, helpless, and unloved.
I use Christian principles, powerful life coaching tools, and love to help you live the life you want.
If you are reading this, I know I can help you. I believe 100% in the tools I use. And I believe in your capacity to change.
There is truly nothing to fear but fear itself.
Email me at denitabremercoaching at gmail dot com
or schedule using my online calendar: calendly.com/denitabremercoaching/consult
I’ll be waiting for your message.
Your Life Coach, Denita